Listen up gentlemen!

Listen up gentlemen!  You need to play an active role in your relationships and in your marriage.
Are you the one who lets your lady take the lead all, or most of the time?  The only way you know there is a problem in the relationship is if she voices it to you?  I’m sure this sounds very familiar.  ;)

It’s funny how many men will take an active role, even being assertive when it comes to sex.  Okay, perhaps, I’m guilty of that myself! LOL.  That’s not a bad thing by the way!  I’m talking about taking an active role in making sure the status of your relationship is good, even great!  Ask questions and inquire if your wife or girlfriend feels love and important.  Take an active role in making the relationship stronger, more passionate, more loving, and more fun!

Too often, I do hear complaints from ladies that “it seems like everything in the relationship seems to be my responsibility!”  Yes, it does take work to have a great relationship!  Yes, this means you too gentlemen!  Make an effort and step up your game in asking questions about how she may be feeling in life, and most definitely in your relationship.

I know guys, that you do not want to promote nagging or criticism.  I get all of that!  Hell, I don’t like that either!  Though this will ultimately make her feel important and cared about by you!  This is a simple, though very effective way of being actively involved in the relationship.  It’s not a lot of work!  Listen and learn what she needs to feel more passion and love in the relationship; then start doing them!  Well, within reason! LOL I’m not referring to life threatening tasks! After all, the more she feels important and valued, the closer she will most likely want to be with you..  If you get me! ;)

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